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Part 2 – Couples With Unequal Incomes: Fairness, Pressure, and Partnership (Ep. 31)

By Wit, Wisdom, and What Matters Most | September 16, 2026

Is a promotion or higher-paying job worth the added stress and time away from your family? Before deciding, you and your spouse need a clear picture of what you’re working toward together.

In this episode, Danton Troyer and Kyle Luetters continue their conversation about marriage and money by exploring how couples can make career and financial decisions together. Through personal examples involving income differences, promotions, returning to work, travel, and family responsibilities, they explore the trade-offs executives and business owners may need to weigh with their spouses.

Danton and Kyle explain how shared financial goals, regular money conversations, and a family SWOT analysis can help spouses weigh additional income against household costs, personal fulfillment, and time together.

Key Takeaways:

How couples can decide whether a promotion or higher-paying job supports their shared goals
Which financial, personal, and family trade-offs to consider before accepting a new role
How one-year, five-year, and long-term goals can guide major career decisions
Why regular money conversations can reduce resentment around income and family responsibilities
How a family SWOT analysis can help spouses evaluate opportunities, concerns, and priorities
And more!

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Career Acceleration Without Personal Burnout (Ep. 24)

By Wit, Wisdom, and What Matters Most | June 10, 2026

Career success can look great from the outside while quietly costing you more than you realize.

In this episode, Sara Bell shares what happened when years of high performance, constant responsibility, and perfectionism finally caught up with her, and how she rebuilt a life and career that felt more aligned with who she truly wanted to be.

Danton Troyer and Kyle Luetters sit down with Leadership and Wellbeing Strategist Sara Bell, Founder of Strive to Thrive Coaching, to talk about burnout, leadership, identity, and the pressure many high achievers place on themselves. Sara opens up about her journey from chemical engineer to biotech executive, to eventually leaving corporate leadership to build a fitness franchise and a coaching business focused on helping leaders thrive without sacrificing themselves. The conversation explores why burnout often has less to do with workload than with values, boundaries, and self-worth, especially for executives who feel responsible for everything around them.

Key Takeaways:

Why burnout is often tied to compromised values, lack of control, or blocked impact
The difference between time management and energy management
Why high performers struggle to transition into effective leadership
How perfectionism and people-pleasing quietly erode capacity
The role financial planning played in Sara’s ability to leave corporate life with confidence
And more!

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About Our Guest:

Sara Bell is a leadership development consultant, executive coach, and entrepreneur with more than 20 years of experience in the life sciences industry. After building a successful corporate career in biotech and commercial leadership roles, Sara experienced firsthand the pressure and burnout that often come with high performance and constant career acceleration. Today, she helps leaders and organizations develop healthier, more sustainable approaches to leadership, growth, and performance through her coaching and consulting business, Strive to Thrive Coaching. Sara is also the owner of a Hotworx fitness franchise in Massachusetts, where she continues to build community and advocate for wellness, resilience, and intentional living.

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